If he’s online and looking for another woman, he’s making a public statement he’s moving on. Don’t get hung up on the past, and don’t start digging around his online profiles. It’s going to feel strange, but you have to put any hurt aside, and you definitely don’t want to start romanticizing about the past. Don’t start thinking about the good times, and wondering if things would be better second time around. You know the best thing you can do when you see your ex online? Dating apps like Tinder, Once, Coffee Meets Bagel, and How About We have grown in popularity because they match users with people in nearby locations, and they tend to remove identifying information, like someone's last name.If you see an app name you don’t recognize, Google it to see if it’s intended as a dating or cheating app. It’s not easy seeing someone you once shared your heart with, publicly advertising himself to other women. In the “old” days, when you broke up with someone you’d never see them again, unless you had one of those awkward moments where you bump into him and his next girlfriend in public. I took a girl to the movie theatre and right in front of me in the queue was one of my ex’s. Now the Internet makes it easy to look up your ex, but you need to resist the temptation. Just because you were together you don’t have first refusal on him, and you can’t be jealous of other women because you’re not a couple anymore.If it’s because you feel guilty, then all you’re doing is leading them on.And if it’s because you think you have a chance of getting back together then you’re just setting yourself up for more hurt.
He couldn't seem to get over little things, or took a long time to recover at least.
If all else fails, you can engage professional investigators to find out for certain whether your signifigant other is using a dating site.
The first step is to be aware of common dating sites and apps (many of which are intended to look inconspicuous) so that if you stumble upon them on your spouse’s phone or web browser history, you’ll recognize them.
Popular affair websites include Married Cafe.com, No Strings Attached.com, Friend Finder.com, and XPress.com, but dating sites like Match.com, e Harmony, and Ok are popular, as well.
Additionally, affair phone apps like Vaulty Stocks and HAA are common.